How to pick your next favourite sex toy – The Ultimate Guide

Whether you’re a veteran of the sex toy world or a beginner, there is often so much choice that it can all be a bit overwhelming. Luckily Nice ‘n’ Naughty are here to help you.

Now we’d like to get it out of the way and state that we believe that almost any sex toy can be used by anyone, so if you believe any of the toys we’ve recommended here are for you then, by all means, jump on board and try it! Sex is all about having fun and learning about yourself and your body!

All the single ladies; all the single ladies…

One of Nice ‘n’ Naughty’s most popular searches is for Rabbit Vibrators. These are designed with women in mind and feature dual stimulation in the form of a shaft, and “bunny ears” which stimulate the clitoris. Although they can be used with a partner, Rabbit Vibrators are perfect for solo play.

Starting from around £9.99, it doesn’t cost the earth to get your rocks off, and if you’re a fan of internal and external stimulation then it’s two for the price of one! There are plenty of different materials and colours to choose from, and you can decide whether you’d like the toy to be firm, or soft. Rechargeable toys are now a big thing and offer so many more options than just saving money on batteries. Rechargeable toys are quite often more powerful, last longer, and can be waterproof thanks to their design. Don’t forget, you can grab a toy with multiple motors inside; usually one in the ears and one in the shaft. Perfect for the power-hungry!

Here are some toys we’d recommend:

The Water Bunny – Available Here
Water Bunny £14.99

The water bunny is a budget-friendly, medium-firm rabbit with one motor inside the ears, located a the bottom of the toy.

The water bunny has a cap to protect the batteries, and if tightened properly, can be used in the shower for extra wet fun!

The toy has low-medium power and low noise output; perfect for those who don’t live alone!

bSwish bWild Classic Rabbit Vibrator – Available Here
bSwish Classic – £24.99

The bSwish Classic Rabbit Vibrator is a cute little bunny in a pastel colour, great for those who don’t have much storage or need something a little smaller.


Another battery-powered toy but this time, the material is much smoother and easier to clean. Made from high-quality silicone and featuring a bulbous end perfect for g-spot stimulation.

Featuring medium vibration and low noise output.

Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl – Available Here
Greedy Girl – £69.99

If you really want to treat yourself, why not try a best-selling vibrator like Greedy Girl, a rechargeable, super powerful rabbit vibrator from Fifty Shades of Grey.


Featuring a motor in both the ears and in the shaft of the toy, this toy is guaranteed to knock your socks off!

Also if you want to try something that will stimulate the G-spot, the curved end adds powerful pleasure to blend into a dual climax; both internally and externally.

Lelo Ina Wave Rabbit Vibrator – Available Here
Ina Wave – £129.99

Lelo Ina Wave is the Queen of dual, blended orgasms. Its patented design features a powerful motor in the single “ear” of the vibrator along with a motor in the g-spot end.

That’s not all! The whole shaft waves and the organic up-and-down motion is perfect for reaching an intense, blended orgasm. The open-ended jack is a patented waterproof design meaning the whole toy is submergible for bath and shower time fun. Lelo toys come with a guarantee inside the box that you can register online.


Butt honestly…

We get a lot of questions about anal play. The biggest question being “Does it hurt?”.

Anal play is different for everyone, some people experience discomfort at first but anal sex and anal play can and should be, enjoyable for both parties. There are now lots of products on the market designed to make anal sex much more pleasurable and comfortable, including sprays, serums and lubricants. Coupling this with a toy which is a good size for you will give you an extra layer of pleasure during your next solo or couples session!

Like other toys, Anal Toys come in many different colours, shapes, sizes and materials, and you can choose a toy which is soft and flexible; or firm. Remember when picking an anal toy, keep in mind your goal. Would you like to be able to stimulate your prostate? Would you like to be able to move up in size? Would you like to prepare for anal intercourse? Picking a toy suited to your goal will help you enjoy your toy and make sure the money you have spent gives you exactly what you want.

Doc Johnson Classic Butt Plug – Available Here
Doc Johnson Classic Butt Plug – £8.99

The Doc Johnson Beginner’s Butt Plug is a great size to start if you’ve never tried anal toys before.

The tapered tip allows for easy insertion and the slim “neck” allows you to wear the toy comfortably.

A butt plug should always contain a flared base for protection, as some bums are hungry! The flared base will prevent the toy from completely entering the back passage.

Available in different colours and styles!

Twirly Trio Butt Plug Set – Available Here
Twirly Trio Butt Plug Set – £24.99

Available in lots of different sizes and colours, a trio kit is perfect for those who want to “train” and move up in size, or find anal sex easier.


Starting with the smallest butt plug, you can enjoy alone or together with a partner and once your body relaxes to the new sensations and feels comfortable, you can move up to a larger size.

Once you’ve completed all the sizes, you should be able to enjoy anal sex with a partner more comfortably.

Unicorn Tails Butt Plug! – Available Here
Unicorn Tails – £29.99

The unicorn tails butt plug from NS Novelties is cute, comes in a variety of colours and is made from top-quality materials. Perfect for pony play, each tail features a medium-sized butt plug and a long, curly tail in pink, blue, pastel blue, and rainbow!


Also available for Pony fans are the Filly tails available in straight blonde, brown and black styles. Each plug is made from smooth, body-safe silicone and is easy to clean and store.

Fifty Shades of Grey Carnal Bliss Mini Anal Beads – Available Here
Fifty Shades of Grey Carnal Bliss Beads – £9.99

These cute little beads are perfect for anal sensations. They can be inserted individually or all 3 for a full feeling. Once inserted, each bead can be removed using the pull loop at the end which gives an indescribable feeling of release!

Anal beads are popular toys to wear during intercourse and quickly removed on orgasm to add another layer to your lovemaking. Anal beads can also be purchased in longer lengths and many different materials such as metal, silicone, rubber and more!


Rocks Off Quest Prostate Massager – Available Here
Rocks Off Quest – £24.99 (Special Offer £14.99)

Prostate massagers come in all different shapes and sizes but their purpose is the same: to stimulate the male prostate. Although they can be used by women too, prostate massagers are a great way to add extra stimulation to your masturbation and lovemaking sessions, and with practice, can even lead to longer, more powerful erections and orgasms – and even handsfree ejaculation!


If you’re curious to know more about the male prostate (also known as the P-Spot) and using a prostate toy, check out the how-to guide here.

Swiss Navy Grease Oil-Based Lubricant – Available Here
Swiss Navy Grease Oil-Based Lubricant – £5.99 for 59ml and £19.99 for 473ml

A lubricant is so important for anal play, and there are many different types of lubricant which are suitable for different things. This Swiss Navy lubricant is oil-based meaning it is not suitable for vaginal use or on products which are latex based (don’t use on condoms!) but it is absolutely perfect for anal play due to its smooth, rich texture. It doesn’t absorb easily into the skin meaning you don’t have to reapply so much! Other lubricants include water-based lubes (suitable for everything but dry a little quicker than normal), silicone-based lubricants (great for all-around use but not safe with silicone toys.)


Dildo bag-ins…

“Dildo” is a word that gets thrown around quite often, and sometimes when people say “dildo” they actually mean vibrator! A Dildo is usually a non-vibrating shape which a flared base which can be used as a suction cup. That’s not to say that ALL dildos don’t vibrate, as some are perfectly capable! We’ll go through the most popular types below and remember, some look phallic, some don’t, some are for the g-spot, and some are for strap-on sex: it’s all about freeing your imagination and having fun!

G-Girl 6 Inch Realistic Dildo – Available Here


G-Girl 6 Inch Realistic Dildo – £19.99


A traditional-looking dildo with balls, the G-Girl is a firmer than average dildo which makes it perfect for use as a suction toy or in a strap-on harness. Sometimes the problem with a strap-on is using a dong which isn’t firm enough, meaning you have to hold it during use – ultimately rendering the point of the harness useless!

If you don’t want to use this dildo in a harness you can just enjoy it solo by attaching it to a firm, flat surface such as a wall or a table.


Fun Factory Bouncer Dildo – Available Here


Fun Factory Bouncer Shake Dildo with Suction Base – £54.99

See, not all dildos have to look like the real thing – some look even better! If you wanted to treat yourself or your partner to a multi-functional, beautifully feeling dildo, you just need to try the Fun Factory range.


You’ve never felt silicone as smooth and soft as this! We don’t know how they do it but the feeling is firm yet smooth and soft – and can only be experienced to be believed!

Available in many beautiful colours and shapes – and if it has a base – it’s going in a harness!


Fifty Shades of Grey Drive Me Crazy Glass Massage Wand – Available Here


Drive Me Crazy Massage Wand – £29.99


Yes, dildos can be glass! Don’t let that scare you away – glass dildos offer some of the most amazing internal stimulation and are ultra hygienic and easy to clean!

Glass toys are made from borosilicate glass, a toughened glass which is commonly known for use in Pyrex products.

These can be heated up and cooled down in warm and cold water and have so many different uses. Glass penis plugs and anal plugs are also available.




Basix P and G Spot Dildo – Available Here
Basix P and G-Spot Dildo – £7.99

These types of dildos are perfect for g-spot stimulation and anal play.


These can be added into a strap-on harness for pegging and prostate stimulation.

Perfect for beginners and suitable for all different types of couples, the Basix P Spot dildo is easy on the wallet too.

It is available in a few different colours including black, pink and red.

Basix Double Ended Dildo – Available Here
Basix Double Ended Dildo – £16.99

Last but by no means least, we have the double ended dildo.


Available in so many different colours, firmness and prices, there is a double ender to suit everyone.

They’re great for couples play and solo play for those who love extreme length!

As will most toys, a double ended dildo is perfect for use in the vagina and the anus, and if you can bend your double-ended dildo then you can do both at once!



There are now more toys than ever on the market for men, and there are so many different brands and toys to go through. We’ll probably make a blog post about it in the future – let us know if you’d like to see it! We’re going to showcase one toy from each male category and if you’re interested, it would be worth checking other styles and brands out and reading up on the descriptions or signing up to a forum to chat with other sex toy owners. Masturbators, Prostate Massagers, Cock Rings and Sex Dolls are just the tip of the iceberg now but finally, the taboo of owning a sex toy for men is dissipating and men can now enjoy sex toys as much as everyone else! Here are just a few of our favourites.

Doc Johnson Main Squeeze Pop-Off Optix Masturbator – Available Here
Main Squeeze Pop-Offs – Optix – £29.99

A nice place to start, the Pop-Off Optix is a discreet, open-ended masturbator to suit all penis sizes and shapes. In a cool clear finish, you can see all the action going on inside and with the open-ended style you can even use with a partner or to increase the intensity of oral sex sessions. Easy to clean and with 2 end caps, the Optix wouldn’t be easy to spot in a drawer or in a wardrobe and is a classy sex toy. The toy also includes a side-plate which can be used to adjust the squeeze intensity and make for a personalised orgasm.


Pornhub Vibrating Tighten-Up Adjustable Cock Ring – Available Here
Pornhub Tighten-Up Adjustable Cock Ring – £19.99

Everyone knows the Pornhub name, even if you’d not like to admit it! Pornhub is one of, if not the biggest porn site across the internet, and they’ve now branched out and made their own sex toys to suit men, women, couples and more!


This cock ring has powerful vibrations and can be adjusted to suit any penis size and preferred tightness.

A bonus is that the bullet can be removed to use on other erogenous zones or on a partner!


Rocks Off Naughty Boy Prostate Massager – Available Here
Rocks Off Naughty Boy Prostate Massager – £49.99

Rocks Off are well known for their sex toys, and over the years have made a name for themselves as one of the dominating brands in the sex toy industry.


The Naughty Boy is a prostate massager perfect for beginners with its medium-strength vibrations and low noise output. Like the Tighten-Up by Pornhub, you can remove the bullet to make washing your toy easier. If you fancy a larger size for more intermediate or pro play, Rocks Off make lots of different sizes and shapes, and have now released extra powerful, rechargeable versions for the power hungry!

Pipedream Ultimate Fantasy Dolls – Kitty & Carmen Available
Ultimate Fantasy Dolls – Carmen – £2499.99

Kitty and Carmen are the most beautiful, realistic sex dolls available in the UK today. They can stand on their own, have firm, life-like skin and they come with lots of accessories to keep the ladies happy.


The photos online don’t do them justice, as in person their lips and skin are super realistic and juicy.

You can dress them up and dress them down, and are a million miles away from the inflatable ladies of the past.


Fleshlight/Fleshjack Masturbators, Girls & Accessories – Available Here


Fleshlight Girls £59.99


The crème de la crème of male sex toys, Fleshlight is such a well-known name that Fleshlight has become the name for most masturbators, such as calling a vacuum cleaner a Hoover.

Fleshlight make amazing quality masturbators in regular and travel sizes, and like the one on the left, also make Fleshlights which are directly moulded from famous porn star vaginas, mouths and anuses.



Closer to the heart…



Lastly, we have our favourite couple toys. Some can be used during sexual intercourse, or make for an amazing bout of foreplay you’ll never forget. Not designed to replace, couples sex toys are designed to make the most of what you’ve got an enhance your lovemaking, bringing it to new levels! You can choose from Strap-Ons, Cock Rings, and even wearable sex toys.

We-Vibe Sync Couples’ Wifi Vibrator – Available Here
We-Vibe SYNC WiFi Enabled Bluetooth Vibrator- £179.99

One of the most well-searched and loved couples’ toys is the We-Vibe. Innovative and simplistic in design, the We-Vibe is a wearable device designed for penile intercourse. The 2 motors take care of both the internal space including the g-spot and the other motor takes care of the clitoris.


One of the most popular things about the We-Vibe is the ability to use your toy from afar and control via an app. Yes, you heard that right, you can create your own modes to personalise your experience! There is so much to tell you about the We-Vibe, click the link above to learn all about it!


Nü Sensuelle Petite Egg Remote Vibrator – Available Here
Nü Sensuelle Petite Egg – £69.99

If you’re super power hungry then this is the egg for you! Finished in a super soft silicone, the Petite Egg is waterproof and features lots of different modes for you to play with.


As an optional extra, you can set the remote to gently vibrate so your partner/controller will know exactly what you’re feeling.

Perfect for inserting at home, walking around, or at loud events such as gigs and clubs! Also available is a cock ring, panty vibrator and anal plug!

Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Hollow Strap-On – Available Here
Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Strap-On – £38.99

Strap-On sets are perfect for both gay and straight couples.

A hollow strap-on, like the one shown here, can be used by men for a little extra length, a longer session, or to assist with penile problems, keeping the intimacy in your love-life.

The Fetish Fantasy strap-on is a budget-friendly vibrating strap-on with a handy belt loop control. Available in both black and flesh.


Kinx Mystic Treasures Couple’s Kit – Available Here
Mystic Treasures Couple’s Kit – £29.99

We couldn’t get by without showing you a couple of kits for you to try a little bit of everything. Like an all-you-can-buffet, sometimes trying a little bit of something can let you know just how much you love it!

The Mystic Treasures kit has long been a popular kit featuring kegel balls, vibrating egg, vibrator, cock rings and butt plug. Perfect for a gift!

The best thing about the mystic treasures kit is its price and interchangeability, making every session different.

We hope you found something here that tickled your fancy, gave you pause for thought, or intrigued you! If you want to know more about each item, click on the links provided to view a short and long description which goes into more detail including material, size, girth, length, colour and manufacturer. With all sex toys, if you don’t try, you don’t know, so try to keep an open mind and free your imagination!

Nice ‘n’ Naughty




One thought on “How to pick your next favourite sex toy – The Ultimate Guide

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